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Post by zoar3 on Feb 19, 2011 16:29:40 GMT -5
Me, too Supprazz. Take care of yourself.
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Post by supprazz on Feb 20, 2011 3:51:28 GMT -5
Thanks guys, I'm doing it tomorrow. I went back to school too this year and my marks are being affected cause my stress level is so high, and he was not giving me space to study though he was acting like he cared.
I think I'm anxious cause I'm worried he won't let me go. I want to just stay friends but no more than that.
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Post by supprazz on Feb 25, 2011 13:38:33 GMT -5
Hey I did it and it's sort of on good terms, but we have future plans that are making it not easy, so it may be rocky before he's gone, I'm a little worried he'll lose his temper with me or something.
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Post by lilafowler on Mar 1, 2011 12:45:15 GMT -5
I'm proud of you for going through with it -- never easy, especially when you still have future plans like you guys did. I hope things stay good between you guys but if you're ever afraid of his temper, please tell a friend or family member. Or even us I don't mean to sound preachy at all but situations like that can get out of control frighteningly quickly; better to be safe than sorry.
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Post by supprazz on Mar 2, 2011 4:24:29 GMT -5
I feel mad at myself cause I know a lot about this type of thing and have helped many out with it, and yet I found myself stuck in what could have turned toxic if I stayed. I'm worried that things will go bad if he doesn't like me taking control despite compromising the thing we need to sort out. But thank you so much for your support, all of you. He wants to stay friends and I was agreeing, but I don't at all anymore, I'm too angry to even interact with him.
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Post by sarish on Mar 2, 2011 10:37:53 GMT -5
^It is always easier to give advice than to follow what you know is right when you are in the situation. He sounds controlling and it is a good thing you got away from him when you did --- now it's probably time to cut ties altogether supprazz...we do not want to see you getting more hurt than you should be! I agree with lila, find someone you can tell your fears to, just in case. Better to be safe.
Men are weird when it comes to break ups...they don't want to admit that they are the ones being broken up with!
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Post by oldhickory on Mar 2, 2011 12:40:28 GMT -5
Men are weird when it comes to break ups...they don't want to admit that they are the ones being broken up with! unless they want sympathy. lame.
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Post by greer on Mar 2, 2011 12:55:10 GMT -5
^It is always easier to give advice than to follow what you know is right when you are in the situation. He sounds controlling and it is a good thing you got away from him when you did --- now it's probably time to cut ties altogether supprazz...we do not want to see you getting more hurt than you should be! I agree with lila, find someone you can tell your fears to, just in case. Better to be safe. Men are weird when it comes to break ups...they don't want to admit that they are the ones being broken up with! yes, it's way easier to tell someone else to do, and to see what the right thing for them to do, then to recognize it and do the same for yourself. Treat yourself with the same respect and care that you have for your friends
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Post by zoar3 on Mar 2, 2011 13:02:20 GMT -5
Stay safe Supprazz and take care of yourself. As Greer said "treat yourself with the same respect and care that you have for your friends." This is something I've struggled with doing but it is so vital and true. Remember "we" are all here for you.
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Post by supprazz on Mar 11, 2011 2:49:56 GMT -5
yeah he is finding it hard to admit it to other people and still acts like we are going out and says we are together, and he didn't want me to change my facebook status immediately and to wait a week though I didn't listen and did it anyways, it's not his account
We are still talking cause of an unfinished project and getting along ok, I made some snippy comments too and feel I am giving attitude and can't stop cause I'm resentful, but it happens after he irritates me with something. I just hope he behaves when we resolve something in a few weeks and we end it.
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Post by greer on Mar 11, 2011 6:24:41 GMT -5
Be careful, supprazz. It sounds like he is having a tough time with the idea of you guys breaking up.
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Post by u4me on Mar 12, 2011 18:59:00 GMT -5
Hang in there, supprazz! Break ups suck - especially when you still care about the person, but just know it's not right to stay with them.
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Post by zoar3 on Mar 12, 2011 19:37:25 GMT -5
Take Care Supprazz and better days ahead.
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Post by supprazz on Mar 15, 2011 3:18:57 GMT -5
Hey, yeah I don't feel like I love him, but I have to resolve one little thing with him in about a week. He's not taking it well, he told someone we are still going out, in front of me, it was a kid, so I didn't ruin that moment but was so angry about it.
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Post by zoar3 on Apr 28, 2011 17:22:49 GMT -5
Supprazz, I finally got the reference (maybe)? behind your board name. when Logan shows up at MA's he says, "surprise," bit to MA's ears it sounds like Supprazz. I am re-reading and had to back up and read again when I came to page 3. MA talks about the "Island Disaster" and how her fight with Logan, "was a big one, but over the smallest thing." Excuse me? Hunters asthma attack that landed him in the hospital was "small?" She goes onto say that "Logan can't be trusted or counted on in a crisis and that he didn't or couldn't make up with her until right before the boaters were found." She got that wrong too. They made up at the reunion scene! My point is, that MA is the one who can't be counted on in a crisis, all she does is throw things, pitch fits, or claims she can't help with whaetver is going on because she's too busy worrying. This has upped my MA dislike.
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